The Art of being Single (Honorary)

Not getting someone suitable for a relationship or losing a relationship because you wanted to be single is not merely the art of being single. It is the ability to not be jealous of other people who are in a relationship but making them feel jealous about the importance of freedom, the ability to do everything without even discussing or asking the other person before taking a little step in life, especially in everything.

Even before eating, they have to ask 'aww mere baby ne khana khaya?' (Did my baby eat?) In the morning, evening or at night, you have to compliment them. You have to be alive while you are dead inside just to make the other person happy and let them know that you are happy having them and that you love them. Just because of these reasons, most of the 'intelligent' people prefer to be single. Now let’s discuss the different types of single people who are masters in the art of being single.

First of all, are the happy singles: They are the happiest people on earth. They enjoy their own life. They don’t have to wait for the calls of others, and they don’t need to worry about little things. They can sleep for long hours. They can enjoy life without feeling the need for a companion 24/7. They can confuse others by their happiness and by their smile, thinking that they are in a relationship, but actually they are happy, single people.

Being single;

you can come late at night

you can enjoy food out at night

you can watch your favorite program

you can pick up your favorite jam.

But just like all five fingers are not equal, all singles are also not equal. Not all single people want to remain single. 

They don’t want to master this art

they want to be the king of someone’s heart,

with whom they can go to the mart.

Then comes the other type of singles who cry the whole year for being single but when someone asks for a relationship, they instantly refuse them.

Don’t know what kind of fear they have

no matter how much beauty near they have.

There are other kinds of singles who are not actually single because they hide their relationship in the name of friendship and tell other people they are single. If you find such people, don’t believe them. They just wish to be in this category forever.

Just because of such people, other singles get defamed

because people think all singles are the same.

Then comes the other type of single whose crush changes almost every second and their standard does not come down from the celebrities. That is one of the biggest reasons as to why they are single.

Not everyone is a celebrity in real life

That’s why not everyone gets a dreamy wife

Now, I’m letting you decide by yourself what kind of single you are. But what actually matters is that if you have learned to be happy with what you are while being single, you have mastered this art. However, for me, the number one category is 'single people are the happiest ones.' Rest of the choices depend on you.

Hence it is clear;

it’s all about the confidence you wear.

Don’t have a partner? Don’t care!

Just enjoy life roaming here and there.

Because happy people are very rare!

Mehwish Siddique

University of Lahore

Doctor of Physiotherapy

3rd Year Student in 6th Semester