Being Single and Introvert
*This article is an entry for the February Blog of the Month Competition*
FATIMAH JAMAL
BATCH OF 2019
For some people in the world being single means being miserable but if you are to ask an introvert, Oh boy! For us being single is like a blessing. It is like an armor that protects us from all socially awkward situations like having an actual conversation. When you are an extrovert, you tend to be more socially outgoing and rowdy. People know you, they invite you to their places, they try to form relations with you. These are the exact things we, introverts are allergic to. We, introverts are so single that if we are in chaotic place and someone yells our name, we won’t bother turning around because we are dead sure the call was not for us.
We love being single. Actually, we are in a relationship with our solitude, and we believe it to be "Ishq Wala Love," and we will fulfil it till death does us apart. We have a problem with breaking the ice, so we think why bother starting one. Being single, we don't have to share our alone time which we spend reading books, painting, watching the sky and most importantly sleeping, with anyone. To me, this is itself a massive blessing so if you are to say 'Hey! You know what? With a partner you share everything, your life, your time, your things.' Then, for us, that is scary. Like, what do you mean no alone time? That we must have conversations, that too everyday. Nooo!! Listen to this, being an introvert and single is the best combination. The kind that you will not find in any Subway.
It’s not that we hate to having relationships considering our favorite characters includes Sherlock Holmes; It’s just that we are very specific about who we choose to share our solitude with. In a world where relationships are formed and broken at the speed of light, I think there is nothing wrong in being slightly introverted.
It’s not that we hate to having relationships considering our favorite characters includes Sherlock Holmes; It’s just that we are very specific about who we choose to share our solitude with. In a world where relationships are formed and broken at the speed of light, I think there is nothing wrong in being slightly introverted.
BATCH OF 2019
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