Blessings in being Single
In this world, more than half of the people are dealing with mental health problems. Some are suffering from depression, some from anxiety issues and some from post-traumatic stress disorder, and these are the basic ones.
Society has put such a fear in the hearts of people about being alone that almost no one wants to be alone, no one wants to be single. People want to have a relationship, even an abusive one, just because they need someone to stick with. It’s as if they have been brainwashed into thinking that once they will be alone, be single, they’ll lose their worth as a person. This society that we live in is ready to accept a woman who is being abused by her husband than a single woman. It’s willing to accept a man who is playboy than a man who is single by Choice. It’s like the Cardinal Rule is, you are allowed to be single if circumstances permit but not by choice.
Let me tell you this Being Single is not a curse but a blessing. When you push yourself into a relationship you are not ready for, you snatch from yourself a chance to know who you are. You spend all your aura on studying someone else instead of knowing yourself.
Being Single gives you a Chance to explore yourself, your limits, and your abilities. It makes you aware of what you are and what you're worth. Once you are single, you are not dependent on people for your happiness. It gives you an opportunity to learn to love yourself and enjoy your company and not run away from your own self.
So, when you think what will happen if you're Single and alone, know that nothing will happen, and as you walk along that road, you’ll get along with yourself and people around you just fine.
Fatimah Jamal (Batch of 2021)
Society has put such a fear in the hearts of people about being alone that almost no one wants to be alone, no one wants to be single. People want to have a relationship, even an abusive one, just because they need someone to stick with. It’s as if they have been brainwashed into thinking that once they will be alone, be single, they’ll lose their worth as a person. This society that we live in is ready to accept a woman who is being abused by her husband than a single woman. It’s willing to accept a man who is playboy than a man who is single by Choice. It’s like the Cardinal Rule is, you are allowed to be single if circumstances permit but not by choice.
Let me tell you this Being Single is not a curse but a blessing. When you push yourself into a relationship you are not ready for, you snatch from yourself a chance to know who you are. You spend all your aura on studying someone else instead of knowing yourself.
Being Single gives you a Chance to explore yourself, your limits, and your abilities. It makes you aware of what you are and what you're worth. Once you are single, you are not dependent on people for your happiness. It gives you an opportunity to learn to love yourself and enjoy your company and not run away from your own self.
So, when you think what will happen if you're Single and alone, know that nothing will happen, and as you walk along that road, you’ll get along with yourself and people around you just fine.
Fatimah Jamal (Batch of 2021)
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