LET'S CELEBRATE PAIN

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Everything that happens, happens for good. But as human beings, we refuse to accept that. We have double standards. When we attain happiness, we say it has happened for the good of us. When we succeed, we celebrate. But when we’re in pain, we blame it on our bad luck.

Honestly, I think pain is more important, even more than happiness. You might ask why? That’s because pain is in fact, the best teacher. It provides us the best guidance. We can't get experience without getting pain and it’s the experience that leads us to success.

Failure – It’s presumed to be a horrible word. When we come to know about someone who failed in a certain endeavor, we automatically start becoming distant from them. Some might have hurtful thoughts towards him, others might feel pity. But almost everyone stops considering them as normal humans.

That’s where we’re all wrong. Failure is the first step of stairs that lead to success. When a person fails he is pained from the inside as well as the outside. The society doesn't accept failures and he knows that. His soul is shattered, and the heart feels full of thorns. That is when the change begins.

If you keep on getting success without hard work and passion, your abilities might just become too monotonous and stagnant. Failure sharpens them, and increases the endurance level. You go back, searches the point which became the cause of your failure. You gather the pieces of your soul and sew them with the thread of courage. You modify your inner self and that’s the most crucial thing.

You look at your targets with a different perspective. Your physical and mental energies become more powerful. They get a proper path to act. Your mind becomes more focused, more determined. The once painful heart and mind now vibrates with energy, hope, and determination. The truth is, no one can taste success unless he has been through a difficult path. Pain and failure is what forms strong pillars. Strong pillars lead to a strong building which can bear catastrophes. Pain makes us stronger.

That's why pain is important and happens for good. We should celebrate pain and failure as much as success because that’s life telling you to step up your game and make a name in the hall of fame.

-         Ayesha Habib (Class of 2019)


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